[LaneyDoll]

Originally Posted by Chazz

Infidelity is often seen to be the deal breaker. It's my experience that infidelity is usually the fete de compli. The culmination of many less obvious betrayals. What about them? Is it ever possible to identify or agree on all of them? Are both parties honest enough, mature enough, well enough to take on that depth of work?

I agree! I once forgave a cheater, and guess what??? They cheated again, and probably more than once. I will forgive a lot of things, but at this point, infidelity is not one of them.

@proximitywithoutintimacy, if they truly need time and space then it may be the trick. Use that time to focus on you and get yourself back into a better headspace. The main thing you need to do is to make a choice that suits you and your situation. What works for me, or anyone else here, may not necessarily work for you.

Best of luck to you!