[atomiczombie]

It all depends for me on if I think that person turned out to be someone entirely different from who I thought they were when I fell in love. If they have, then there are no second chances with me.

Misunderstandings and miscommunications are really tough. I have had people completely misread me and then reject me and never want to talk to me again. That hurt, but I always try to figure out what I might have done differently. Honestly, I never intend or try to hurt someone, and I NEVER cheat. Cheating is a deal-breaker with me, as is abuse (verbal or otherwise). I have had some romances end really badly for me, and it just makes me more cautious about committing to anyone. Look for the red flags, and you are less likely to get into a situation that won't turn out well. Above all, be HONEST!!