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Greco · 07-22-2011, 10:24 PM

"And lately (I am not sure whether it is happening more, whether I am noticing it more, or whether I am just being more sensitive to it) but I feel like butch women don’t take me seriously, and treat me like an idiot, or dismiss me as being shallow simply for the fact that I am wearing cosmetics, and feminine clothes and (most importantly for me) having fun with my clothes!"

Star Anise,

As has already been mentioned, its their problem. I want to share with you that I have always enjoyed and been attracted to femmes who wear make up, and have fun dressing in their feminine manner. Part of my attraction to femmes is their love of looking beautiful, and enjoying their feminine qualities. So, those butches that appreciate femmes and their energy will find you.

Enjoy it all, Greco

07-22-2011, 10:24 PM	#4
Greco Senior Member How Do You Identify?: GNC, not Trans, REAL. TIME. ONLY. Preferred Pronoun?: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Relationship Status: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: In a good life. Posts: 3,200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,160 Thanked 6,618 Times in 2,287 Posts Rep Power: 0	Femme "And lately (I am not sure whether it is happening more, whether I am noticing it more, or whether I am just being more sensitive to it) but I feel like butch women don’t take me seriously, and treat me like an idiot, or dismiss me as being shallow simply for the fact that I am wearing cosmetics, and feminine clothes and (most importantly for me) having fun with my clothes!" Star Anise, As has already been mentioned, its their problem. I want to share with you that I have always enjoyed and been attracted to femmes who wear make up, and have fun dressing in their feminine manner. Part of my attraction to femmes is their love of looking beautiful, and enjoying their feminine qualities. So, those butches that appreciate femmes and their energy will find you. Enjoy it all, Greco