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Old 08-02-2011, 03:18 PM   #729
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Originally Posted by sweetfemme247 View Post
my family is way bigger then me and she gets pissed if i lose weight and she dont
That's a tough one for sure.

One of the biggest things I've had to learn (and learn again and again and again ) is to not compare myself to other people. Somehow it always ends up with me feeling crappy.

And, sometimes, family and friends want to keep you pulled down to their level. It's an unfortunate truth that not everyone is happy to see others succeed, or be happy.

I'd say focus on yourself...do what you know is right for you...and do your best to let the negativity slide off. Like others have said here....sometimes distance is your friend, especially when you're surrounded by negativity.
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