[Strappie]

Originally Posted by mplsgrrl

Seeking courtship. Seeking advice and conversation about courtship in *our* community.

I am in my early 30s and ready for a real and meaningful relationship that will last. Of course! Or not, depending on what you desire. What I wonder is... where I can I find that elusive courtship?

My actions might be part of the problem. I'm not saying I'm a second date UHaul grrl, but I am looking for LTR. In doing so, I have find myself dating in rapid-fire succession. Sort of. I also have a tendency I'm not proud of - of becoming physically intimate with my dates very early on. I do think that's part of the problem.

Okay... so how do I attract a suitor/someone who will court me?

Looking forward to hearing your ideas!

I call it the 10 Business Card courtship ... Try dating someone 10 times giving them a business card. You can put sayings on the business cards for each date with a count down if ya wanted to. It does make for some thing fun and to make fun of each other. Make rules such as. A date is alone time you spend together, not going out with friends with your date. After the 10 business cards (or whatever you want or it could be 10 cent dates and give a penny to the other person till ya hit .10c) Then if you feel you need to make 10 more dates till you get intimate with each other, then you add more dates.....

So you get the idea. Good luck sweetie!!