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Originally Posted by Scorp
In the end my gut is always right and I'm glad I have that ability. I try and warn people about others who have such characteristics, but that can come off like it's "me" have a problem with those individuals and I may end up looking like a troublemaker. All I can do is say it once as a "heads up" and that's that. In time what usually happens is I'm told "you were right about so-in-so".... 
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The first time I encountered an individual who tried to warn me about someone, I laughed it off. At the time I was a whole 20 years wise into the world. The price I've paid for not listening, was a high one that almost cost me my sanity. For a long time life was hard.
Warning others, not an easy thing. They don't often listen. But I take heart, knowing that there are resources online.
People just need to know that they are out there. This one is pretty thorough:
http://www.mcafee.cc/Bin/sb.html
At least knowing what the pitfalls are out there in the road, can always help a gal. Think of it as "defensive romance."
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---Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
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