[bigbutchmistie]

Ideally I wished people would just stay together. But alas thats not the case.

My best friend whom has had mulitple different partners over the years. Out of her exes the ones I am not friends with screwed my friend over in some way or another. They aint gettin my friendship at all. The only thing they will get from me is a boot up their ass for how they treated her.

I have only continued friendship with one of her exe's. Cause of how she treated my friend before and after the mutual break up. And the quality individual she is. It was difficult for both of us at first to continue to be friends. However, for me, once I decided to separate them in my mind it became easier. So as far as my best friend went I dont mention the x and with the x I dont mention my best friend.

I will always do this should I be in the situation again.

Now as far as my friend staying friends with someone I dated NOPE. And thats just cause of how bad they treated me.

This is just my two cents and experience on the matter