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Originally Posted by Medusa
Kannon-
We need to be super careful about stating our preferences in ways that "other" people in a dehumAnizing or derisive way. I think if you said "I prefer..." and then stated what you like, there wouldn't be a problem. Being that we have some transfolks on this site who are pre-op, we need to be sensitive about language here because we aren't having any ugly transphobia here.
Thanks!
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Thanks for increasing my sensitivity and my awareness. After reflecting, I can see how this comment might hurt someone's feelings even if it was said without malintent. I guess my humor can be crass and insensitive.
To clarify my position on this matter. I've been attracted to pre-op MTF. So, my attraction to a person is NOT based on any physical characteristics. It's all about the psych connection I have with her.
If my comment hurt the feelings of any trangendered person, please accept my sincerest of apologies.