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					Originally Posted by  Quintease
					 
				 
				The least acceptance I have experienced is from non-lesbian women who are dating/have dated transmen.  From them I have experienced everything from a refusal to understand that my lesbian identity is something to mourn, to a strongly held opinion that my lesbian identity is somehow disrespectful to my partner.  I really don't understand why this is, though perhaps it is that having an ID which already involves men, they really can't relate.*  A bit of empathy would be nice. 
 
*which seems fairly obvious now 
			
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 YES. "a strongly held opinion that my lesbian identity is somehow disrespectful to my partner"
This is hard to tolerate.