[princessbelle]

Originally Posted by BugsAndKisses

Has anyone here ever had to make a quick escape? Like pack a car n leave your life behind kinda escape?

I think we would be surprised at how many have done this. I left a horrible relationship (noone on these sites) a few years back with what i could load in my car on my lunch hour. My boss encouraged me to after he found out the living conditions i was in and gave me a thousand bucks to do it.

I left my life there. I only had what i could fit in my car, which was mostly clothes and pictures, and took off across the country and came home. I left 8 years of accumulated "things" from my personal things growing up to somewhat expensive items i had purchased on my own. Boat, camper, motorcycle, hot tub, all of my Christmas stuff ...everything.

But, I'll tell you something. You *anyone, can rebuild, start again. Many of us have done it. In the end, you know it was worth it if the relationship was not healthy or safe. Things are just things. It has taken over two years to rebuild my life, but it is now rebuilt and i couldn't be happier and i know i made the best decision.

*hugs to you