11-07-2011, 12:32 PM
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Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
BBW. Unique femininity that does not encompass the western paradigm.
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Anything Respectful!
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Single, Happy, not Desparate or Looking, but Open to Possibilities...
Join Date: Sep 2011
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Cajun_dee
I am like this to a certain extent. I don't get why some people feel a need to *hold on* to people, even family that hurt us. When I am done, I'm done. I don't know if that's a grudge but there are certain people that I don't give two cents worth about what happens to them, one being my own father. Is that a grudge or self preservation?
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I feel holding grudges is, too resentfully and unwillingly allow the other person back into my life because I want to punish them for hurting me. I’m NOT one for holding grudges – what’s done is done as far as I’m concerned – I move on with life.
Self preservation is to protect oneself from a harmful situation/relationship in any form that is unhealthy.
Just my feelings and POV on this…
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Last edited by 1QuirkyKiwi; 11-07-2011 at 12:33 PM.
Reason: Ooops! Brain working faster than fingers can type! LOL!
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