Actually my therapist mentioned having some sort of ceremonial burning of something. Maybe a letter is the way to go?
I sent him (My father) a letter 12 years ago stating how I felt and demanding that I be treated with respect....We never spoke again.
Maybe I will start writing how I feel about the whole thing, then burn the letter with tons of sage or something. I had no idea what to burn, thank you so much.
For my sister the cremation was enough, somehow I need more.
Man am I high maintenance!
Hey that made me laugh...cool!