[DapperButch]

Originally Posted by Quintease

It's something my hubby and I have been talking about a lot recently.

You all obviously learned how to talk to men on their own level, probably most of you were doing it for most of your lives. But how did you learn to talk about sex with cis-gendered men if they don't know you're trans?
I'm genuinely interested in your answers. My hubby has always worked with men, but now that he's gone stealth he's really struggling due to a lack of practical knowledge about boy's bits. He's not bi so I can't even send him out for a lesson or two

Originally Posted by Quintease

That, though I wasn't entirely sure how to word it. They do indeed like to talk about their parts, as well as expecting him to join in. He was openly trans in his last position so this is a new experience for him.

Did none of you ever worry when you found yourself in his position? I'm confused why you're confused, unless it's me not making any sense!

It was the bolded part that confused me. You said talking about sex. You didn't say talking about genitals.