many years ago, I had to give up a LDR because neither of us would budge on moving
After a year, it was too much (not monetary) to travel every other weekend on a plane to visit
I'm not saying I wouldn't considerate it again
I just wouldn't want to invest my time and feelings if a compromise could not be made on where we'd live if we get serious
Once again, it goes back to communication
Live, but listen and learn
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Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo
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