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How Do You Identify?: stone butch
Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am.
Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along.
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: shreveport,Louisiana
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Ageism/dateing ivisablity
Yeah that thing.Boy did it ever raise its ugly head tonigh,again,there is the really cute,sexy as all get outs college prof I have been hanging out with on and off for a while.When I met her she had no idea what my age was nor I hers,a fue monts ago I got carded at a night club and she was with me,the guy at the door made the comment that hell you dont look any where near your age..what ever you are doing keep it up...I said thanks and in we went.So in passing she ask,just how old are you???In a kidding way I told her old enough to vote a couple of times over anyway,then I told her my age(64)
She didn say much then but on the way home she said we could be friends but she just didnt date anyone seriously that was so much older than she was (50).I said no prob so we stayed friends,last night we went out for dinner and the blues club on the river frount,we had a good time till she had a drink to much then she desided we might be better than friends.Now If I wasnt the person I am I may have used this occasion to my advantage but I took her home got her in the house safely..then told her that we were friends and will stay that way cause unless she still though this way when she was sober a fue drinks wouldnt change things,then I said good night.When I got home there was a message on my phone that said she was sorry for haveing to much to drink,it wasnt something she normaly did(this I know already) end of message.I wish ageism didnt become an issue in the things we do in life,weather I see her again isnt he issue,I would like to atleast keep the friendship,its just theis thing about age sucks.
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