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How Do You Identify?: Femme
Preferred Pronoun?: Lovely
Relationship Status: Totally devoted to finding the right one
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Indiana
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Relationships
I have had relationships on my mind for a few days now. Why does it seem to be so complicated? I was told once "love is not complex, love is simple. WE make it complicated." I think about that often. I over think and over explain everything; just ask anyone who knows me. When you get down to it, love IS simple. We either do or we don’t, but I think it is because we are as individuals only willing to "go so far", then comes the complications. To me, true love has no boundaries, no underlying pre-defined limitations. I simply love you. I don’t judge you, I accept you, completely without prejudice. I accept your mood swings, your attitudes, your funny faces, your laugh, your appearances etc…. I accept you as the total package. I don’t believe I can sit down; write a list and everything I desire will magically appear. I do believe that I can have standards and I do believe I can compromise. When you love someone, if it is true, then you will learn to love the imperfections. All of what I am saying sounds so wonderful, but I must remind myself we are human and with that comes complexity.
Just my thoughts
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