The basis for reconnecting is due to the fact that she told me she finally took the advice I'd given her two years prior about a drastic change needed in her life. She's not had an easy life at all and I do feel bad for her in that regard.
However it's not a situation I want to get back into. I agreed to talk with her to give her a chance to vent a little and seek some friendly advice.
If I get the slightest hint that she's seeking more than advice, I'll be sure to stop the conversation and remind her of the boundaries.
I may be lonely, but I'm not self-loathing, nor am I THAT desperate. Sometimes I think I'd have an easier time in life if I was more hard up on my emotions... but if that were the case I wouldn't be so darn cuddly lol.