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					Originally Posted by Chancie  I love the idea of sending over a drink.
 Someone can choose a soft drink if they prefer and
 
 The bartender can help you flirt.
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 ...except many people don't accept drinks like that anymore.
At the Reunion, where obviously I already knew everyone was gay, a Butch just came up and simply said "Hi, I'm _____".  Simple (unless you're very shy).