[thedivahrrrself]

Well, my political beliefs are all over the spectrum, so I'm much more likely to date someone who can challenge me there and doesn't believe like I do. My beliefs evolve as new evidence is presented.

Religion is a sticky one for me. My ex started out religious and her beliefs evolved; after about 6 years together, she told me she was an atheist. This caused a lot of friction between us the last couple years, because she started saying really demeaning stuff like, "You are such a smart person, and you're so logical. I just don't see how you can believe in anything spiritual." She didn't understand why I adore Hitchens and Dawkins, but I remain unswayed by many of their arguments.

She wasn't what I'd call a "rabid" atheist (I have several friends who are, but they are my friends, not my partners.), but the constant backhanded compliments and swipes at my intelligence were too much to bear. We had plenty of problems, but this certainly did not help anything.

So, after that experience, I'm not sure I could date an atheist unless they could at least comprehend why I do believe in something (beyond me being too stupid to get it). As far as other religious beliefs, I'm fine with that. I'm open minded, and I love to learn about other cultures, religions and belief systems. It all makes for good conversation, as long as there is a healthy respect.