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Originally Posted by Neen
So...I was thinking that we should have a place to ask things we 'need to know'...something which crosses our mind and needs to be clarified... a place where we can check in with fellow planet-eers and see what they think...
let's be careful not to judge harshly the questions (or the question-eers)...we could have a bit of fun and, maybe even, satisfy the need to know...
I'll start :
if someone calls me " a hot mess" it means they think I'm hot, and want to mess around, right?
in the need to know,
neen
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Originally Posted by apocalipstic
The first time I heard "Hot Mess", it was in Memphis. It was used in a "you seem to be a mess and need to pull yourself together" way.
It also could be said in a flirtation....."you are a hot mess, let me fix you up" way.
It may mean something else in different parts of the country.
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See, and when it has been said to me I have just taken it to mean that the person finds you hot, and that maybe they are feeling a bit *hot under the collar*, at that moment (due to you). Yes, a flirtation...may just be in fun...not them actually seeking anything sexual from you.