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Old 04-25-2012, 09:24 AM   #95
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Originally Posted by macele View Post
i'm sure it can work both ways. a butch can be offensive with words, and a femme can also. a femme can ask a butch do something that has been generated from the hetero female brain.

if i seem defensive, maybe i am a little lol. i just don't think this is a butch problem. but rather a person problem. and i personally am not fond of looking to other people to guide me/correct me in regards to behaviour. if i am in need of someone to tell me how to act, i have person problem issues lol.

all is understood that it is needed to tell someone if they say things that are offensive. indeed. and that's what makes a good topic, ... learning.
And you're right as well. I've been asked more times by straight males to use my cleavage to get something than by butches. But you know who the worst culprits are? Straight women. They are often oblivious to their own oppression....
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