[weatherboi]

i watched one of my cooks try and get a server to show him some cleavage before he would put her food in the window for her. Of, course she didn't, she was appalled. Even grosser he was married with kids. I fired him along with two other line cooks that were involved in onlooking. Yuck right!!!

For me, manners are global not regional so using familiars in any situation is not always popular or sensitive. Most people i attended college with were from different countries and some things were ok and some were not.

i have seen gay men objectify women they were with this way. i have seen a woman send her girlfriend to get them free drinks when i was at a festival. This seemed to be consented to by the girlfriend but i did not know them. i know it happens probably a lot in the LGBTIQ community.