05-03-2012, 09:16 AM
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How Do You Identify?:
Girly girl femme
Preferred Pronoun?:
She; Ma'am; Miss ;)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by musicman
Nothing MAKES me butch I just am. It's what I have always been. If you put a dress on me I'd still be butch. I'd just be a really bad drag queen.
Musicman
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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee
THIS.
It's like asking a tree what makes it a tree.
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I agree! I cannot tell you "why" I identify as femme-I just do.
Additionally, I think it is easier to identify with someone based on their energy than it is their wardrobe. Yes, the wardrobe does provide clues but what if the clothes suit the situation more than they do the person? (I used to date a singer who donned what she referred to as "femme drag" to be in plays although she identified as "genderqueer.")
Just my random thinking...
Edit to add:
As far as this, "Can a Butch dress like a Femme and still be butch inside or is that just to weird," I think it is stereotypical to presume that one should present in a way that goes against their personal nature/style just because the world expects them to look a certain way.
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Last edited by LaneyDoll; 05-03-2012 at 09:37 AM.
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