[OS Butch]

Originally Posted by Firedance

Phew! I didn't want to lose another one of you because you were unappreciated!

And yes, we DO know it when we see it. But like you said, those manners aren't always welcomed.

My question is, is there anything about a Femme that tells you one would welcome that part of the dance?

Well, that brings to mind a very funny story. I once dated a gal that was not an OFOS Femme. She very much enjoyed my type of OFOS. I would go get the car from the parking lot and pick her up at the door, even if it wasn't raining. She would allow me to open doors and pull out her chair and help her with her coat and many other things.
One day she was at a seminar for work. She had driven by herself. Later that evening she call to tell me what had happened after the seminar....
She left the seminar and was standing at the entrance....waiting for me to pick her up! She had forgotten she had drove herself!
For me, I don't necessarily look to see if a Femme is OFOS. It is more important to me that I be respected and allowed to be who I am and do the things I love to do...The manner in which that I show respect for a lady, Femme, Butch or purple people eater.
Admittedly though, it is much easier to be me with an OFOS Femme because they already know how i move in this world.