05-11-2012, 07:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee
the *one up* thing
why do some people have to offer a better or different way for every single thing you suggest or do?
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Originally Posted by smouldering
OMG YES!! There is this woman that I work with, we have a little forum for this particular company and every single time a person mentions doing something or wanting to do something.. she's done it lol, she ALWAYS has to give her 2 cents and it comes across a bit condescending most times.. grr! lol
Another pet peeve of mine is those who think their opinion is the ONLY opinion and thinks they are always right.. .gif)
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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee
yes, i sometimes wonder if people can just say *wow that's a good idea* instead of OR you could do this OR you could do that or offer some (and usually silly) suggestion to top yours.
i know someone who constantly uses *what you could do is this or what you coulda done was that*
Unless your name is SYR i don't really like it. 
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YIKES! I've been accused of being like this at times; yet, what my accusers haven't understood is that I've chosen to go out and do/experience many things and not let my disability get the better of me. I say to them, that one day I could end up in a Wheel chair, so I'm living my life whilst I still have the ability to do so. Some how I still feel the shame of coming across as a 'one upper'. *Sighs*
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