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					Originally Posted by  blush
					 
				 
				Why not just ask her? 
			
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 Agreed.  It feels a little distasteful to speculate based on a few actions or outward appearance.  It's no different than speculating on a tennis player's orientation because she "looks" butch or femme.   Get to know her and you'll find out everything you want to know.