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femmsational · 05-27-2012, 10:28 AM

Wow!! I feel for you. I live in small town Alabama. Open-mindedness (is that a word?) is not what this area is known for.

My only advice to you would be, do what you have to do to be you. If that means moving to a place that can help you match your body to your soul, then do that. It's a bumpy ride but it's necessary if you are in fact a FTM.

One thing I've learned through my life is that unless I take care of me first, I'm no good to anyone else. Your son deserves to have a parent who can give all of themselves to him. If you're wrapped up in dealing with a judgemental mother (HI MOM:-) or a small town that you have to fight just to *be* in, you're not all in with your son.

Take your time and think about all options, pros and cons, etc...etc....and do what's going to make you the best you so you can be the best parent for your son.

Just my 2cents.

Good luck on your journey

julie

05-27-2012, 10:28 AM	#4
femmsational Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: bitch, but she will do Join Date: May 2012 Location: Jomtien Thailand Posts: 808 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 866 Thanked 3,787 Times in 773 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Wow!! I feel for you. I live in small town Alabama. Open-mindedness (is that a word?) is not what this area is known for. My only advice to you would be, do what you have to do to be you. If that means moving to a place that can help you match your body to your soul, then do that. It's a bumpy ride but it's necessary if you are in fact a FTM. One thing I've learned through my life is that unless I take care of me first, I'm no good to anyone else. Your son deserves to have a parent who can give all of themselves to him. If you're wrapped up in dealing with a judgemental mother (HI MOM:-) or a small town that you have to fight just to be in, you're not all in with your son. Take your time and think about all options, pros and cons, etc...etc....and do what's going to make you the best you so you can be the best parent for your son. Just my 2cents. Good luck on your journey julie __________________ If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough" Albert Einstein Yes, I'm aware I can't spell, and no, I don't care quite enough to spell check. Sorry!!!