[shiagirl]

Originally Posted by MidnightBlueEyes

this is exactly why I moved away from my family and didn't speak to them for 7 years. When my mother passed when I was 19 she left me 10,000. That was alot back then. My brother thought he woyld apend it for me on gambling....not...then my sister told me her husband thought god would want her to disown me to show her love for me because I was gay. This was the same man who molested my nieces for 6 years and then found god.

Then my other sister is always drunk when she calls me and wants to tell me how much she loves me as she slurs her words and tells me about her latest lay. Soooo not interested. I'm more interested in how I raised my nephew for 2 years and now his drunk father has him convinced I'm bad because I'm gay.

I give them very little input and NO control over my life.

Midnight; wow sweetie your family sounds a lot like mine. The saying blood is thicker than water, for some is not true in my case. Sometimes friends and lovers make the best 'real family' than do our biological ones. Sometimes letting go of people who hurt us is our way of saving ourselves, just as in what I had to do. I am sorry you had to go through all that as i did. Hugs.