[Ciaran]

Originally Posted by Hollylane

Amazingly, the first time I ever came into this thread was because I saw my Butch post in here. At the time, I was clueless that my boyfriend's crush, was actually on me. When I read the post, I was like....Damn.

Now, I love to re-read it, knowing that it is about me, and thinking...Damn ...I am so lucky.

That's a really nice story.

I think most of us can be clueless on these things more often than not. Certainly, my crush radar is up there with my gaydar in terms of its defectiveness