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Old 06-16-2012, 03:19 PM   #525
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Originally Posted by always2late View Post
I agree! Nothing ventured, nothing gained...just think, if you take the direct approach, you could save yourself all the time you are going to be spending hoping, wishing, dreaming. Let her/him/hym know how you feel! What's the worst that could happen? An "I'm flattered but no thanks"?? Who knows? The object of your crush may also be crushing on you...and it might lead to something wonderful...or it might fizzle out. But for me, even if it fizzled it would be infinitely better than never taking the chance at all.
Understand this but, at the same time, a crush is just a crush. Unless getting together is practically possible, then, well, it's just a crush. No need to be taking anything forward, nor to confess undying love for someone you may only know from a few internet posts.

Just my take on things.


ps - I am looking for a wife. Ideally, she will look like Joan Colllins, live like Sue Ellen and make lasagne like Martha Stewart can. All applications welcome.
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