[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Originally Posted by IslandScout

So Alex, as the Planet's self-appointed Flirtologist, I'm just wondering—

since you "never tell" when you have a crush, how exactly does the lucky recipient of your attentions ever know she has caught your eye?

If you don't use words, do you perhaps use body language?

I think there are a number of ladies on the thread who would enjoy your description of what that might look like.

Only if you feel like sharing, of course.

Scout

First I must admit I had to get a private message from somebody to tell me about your post Scout sorry I have been a tad busy lately.

Well know if it is a full blown crush and not me being nice or just flirting I of course send her a respectful private message. That way no body is embarrassed in case she has her eye on someone else. Now the flirting can lead to a crush. However I only go public with what the femme is comfortable with.

Usually if I am interested in someone she is given my yahoo and I let her know she can reach me there anytime she wants. That way the decision is hers now if she gives me hers in return I of course make the first move of friending her. Then it just goes from there. All this takes time and with my screwy schedule it can be difficult to foster that crush into something long lasting in rt because that is always my goal. Something in real time.