[Lady_Di]

Originally Posted by Miss_Tia

well I am joining you all in here. I have added 10 lbs in stress eating, which for someone who had stumach surgery, means i ate ALOT in order to gain these 10 lbs. Havoc wailed on my senses and dulled the affects until the stress was over and now I am dealing with the aftermath. Its DANGEROUS for me to eat like that. I only have 1/3 of my stumach left. So...time to modify and eat more healthy.

My daughter got married. Talk about a stressor. and it was complicated. So add more stressors. I ate and ate and ate and ate all the wrong things. Things i have been told NOT TO EVER EAT AGAIN.

so...I feel like i did when i quit drinking...prepared for the jonesing and scared of it. Its not the weight I am worried about. Its the lifestyle. I will kill myself if I keep doing this. And just because the wedding is over doesnt mean the complications are...and they will keep me eating like this...

but they wont. I need to stop.

I am not suppose to have carbonated drinks.

Nor sugars

Nor whites

I am going to fast for a day to get this stuff out of me and then work slowly into introducing foods back to me.

Yep, what you put in your body, probably can't be what most people put into their bellies. And that is seriously okay! Do what you need to do.

Keep it simple.

Food, the nutrition you require, protein first... then your veggies, etc. You know the drill.

Hydrate, Sleep and do not forget to get your body moving and breathing!

Food, water, sleep and exercise. We can simplify this to the elemental things we really do need. Each of those are critical aspects in this process. I have to keep reminding my own self, too.

Keep it simple, silly!

KISS~
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I have those same parameters. It does get easier, what is often suggested to get back on track is this... just go back to what you had to eat right after your surgery. Just for a few days, the liquid protein was what they had me on. Diet aka sugar free instant breakfasts, as I recall. Which I could not drink, as I recall... as I had a wonderful reaction to any and all artificial sweetners.

It is all good, as I like to say, God was doing for me, what I could not and would not do for myself. I feel it was such a blessing to have that adverse effect from something that is essentially so dang toxic to the body. Personally I would prefer to always eat what is real, the way that mother nature makes it. The way the body was built, designed to agreee with. Artificial sweetners may be something most doctors and the ADA recommends. I just beg to disagree.

In fact there is a lot of evidence that diabetes has been going up exponentially due in fact in no small degree to these sweetners massive consumption. I am in complete and total disagreement about the use of and supposed benefits of these artificial sweetners. Many of those substances are like 1000 percent sweeter than the real thing, sugar and it alters parts of how our brains crave sweets. The Sweet tooth and the Fat tooth, are real phenomes, from our genetic pasts, it is positively a evolutionary reality. And why humans beings really really love their ice cream, in fact people do in fact scream for ice cream!

Again, sorry... I digress. A simple fast is a good way to get the crap out of your system. Or a juice fast, where you are purifying and cleansing your insides, does a body good. You end up feeling squeaky clean, inside and out.
Or better yet, just keep it simple. When you do go back to eating again, eat exactly what you know to be right for you. Yes, your friends and family may be eating a ton of other things, just say no thank you. Do this for you! Your health matters.

And you know this drill...

Protein first, it fills up the littler stomach... then veggies, then fruits after that... at first you might want to skip the fruits... they are too close to those sugars you are still having craving for. You mentioned the 'white' stuff... stay away from all the grain products if you can, even for just a month and see how you feel. The carbs, even the complex carbs... they really do a number on a littler stomach. Much less the fact that the simple 'white' carbs are converted by the body into simple sugar. Hard on your liver, big time.

Most folks may not be aware of what a fatty liver looks like. I know it surprised my fellow here, the word cirrhosis is not a good word to hear, not ever. But to think that what we are doing to our livers is a bit much. Alcohol is not the only thing that scars up a liver. Obesity does it as well. I know I need my liver, would die without it. That goes for all of us, the livers job is a super important one. One none of us can live without.

I was also grateful that I became lactose intolerant after my surgery. Since milk has so much naturally occurring sugars, well... the body has a hard time seeing the difference really. Sugar is sugar. I know I have shared this before... but I visual the shards of glass inside my arteries and veins. Brings the reality smack dab in the middle of my consciousness.



You can do anything you put your mind to!