[Diva]

Originally Posted by tribalwomon

Just got off the phone ..with someone on TAGGED.....she gave me her phone number.. to call her...after a few emails..I called her..it was very unnerving...the silences....My voice..always seems to bother ... the wimmin I talk to...It is now painful for me to talk to strangers....afraid of the reactions...I used to love ...the sound of my voice....now ..I'm very uncertain....Been thinking of ways to change it...But then..I wouldn't be me....Irene

Sweet Irene....

The problem is CLEARLY not YOURS, my darling......it is THEIR problem. Don't let the timbre of Your voice keep You from reaching out to anyone You wish!

And You said it best.....if You forced change in Your voice, You wouldn't be You.....<smile>

And there You have it!