[LadyRieinAL]

eyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy I think I just figured it out OS = old school?

I'm an old school femme, I think.....
I want someone to open my door
I want someone to pump my gas because they don't want my hands to smell like gas and it isn't offensive on their's.
I want someone who appreciates that I like my make-up and girly shoes and I care nothing about tennis shoes.
The other day, I was chatting with someone who I had met a month or so earlier, and she said her ex told her she wasn't butch enough - and when I asked what did her ex mean - she said, she wanted me to pump her gas, cut her grass, take her garbage out - and she said, I ain't your errand boy...
.so at that point, even though I am capable of doing these things, except for cutting the grass, I'll pay someone to do that, I came to the realization that we were going to be really good FRIENDS.
I've never known any different lifestyle, I've had three relationships, two butch and one ftm and the total of years together is longer than most of the people on here are old - 35 years - so in my mind, it never dawned on me that someone who identified as butch would look at doing these things for their girl would consider this to be a bad thing. But it woke me up to the realization of what is and that I shouldn't just assume. <heavy sigh>