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How Do You Identify?: Evolving Femme
Preferred Pronoun?: she, girl, her
Relationship Status: found my vibrational match
Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: Sweet Home Alabama
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Butches Not a dying breed
I've never expected anyone to pump my gas, or take the garbage out, it is just the way it has always been, in my relationships.
I've always worked, I've always done what ever it took to make my relationship work, I've always given and pulled my fair shair.
Everyone I've ever been with has always been stronger than I am, they have to be, to open my mayonaise jars.
In gardening, which I love to do, my partner has always been the one to dig the holes and I plant and cover it with the dirt. Normally around my house in the past, if I cook, my partner washes the dishes.
I've never know anything other than being a girl - I don't even own a pair of tennis shoes - I refuse to change the oil on my car, but I don't expect my butch to do that, I'll pay someone, just as I would pay someone to cut the grass. But you know what, all that is done is always done out of co-creating a better relationship, it has nothing to do with expecting someone to do certain chores. I just know there are certain things that a Butch is better equipped to do. And I am appreciative!
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