hey ruthie! i'm sorry you are going through this. i've learned in my experience, that if you both aren't on the same page, then you really want to find someone who is, ya know? in my opinion, it sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too, (no pun intended!) and it's not fair to you. i know what it's like to be led on and i don't like it. it's pretty much be real, or don't bother me! i don't have the time and energy for that stuff. you deserve better! hang in there....
