Ok, I hate sounding like a downer, but just wanted to insert my 2 cents here. Anyone considering starting a family where one partner is going to be the actual bio-mother of the child needs to consult an attorney. I know we don't like to think of a relationship ending when we are in love...but, as we know, it does happen. Luckily, I have never been in this situation, but I have friends who have been...and they have had to deal not only with the heartbreak of losing their partner, but with the complete devastation of losing their child as well.
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