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Old 08-24-2012, 07:44 AM   #51
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Originally Posted by thedivahrrrself View Post
I have pondered this a lot, and I think the answer is this: You have to find someone whose baggage matches yours.

In my experience, someone who is not f-d up (for lack of a better term) can never understand you. Someone who is TOO f-d up is going to overwhelm and exhaust you. So you have to find someone that is at the same level of f*ckedup-edness as you.

I don't know if I agree with this statement.
It's sort of like - the blind leading the blind and find this enabling and counter productive.
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