I'm not going to give you relationship advice. I am not qualified to do that.
However, let me just share this thought, for what it is worth.
Scrap the grand plan.
In my view, life cannot be planned. Life happens. You can't plan it. You can't schedule it. You just have to deal with how it comes at you. In my opinion, having a grand plan just continually sets you up for disappointment. Live in the moment, or at least try to.
Jake
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