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nycfem · 08-27-2012, 05:33 PM

On a micro level, how do we build a culture of empathy here on BFP?

One thought I have is that it is important when we post that we think that any member could be reading the post and how will they feel after reading it if they are, for example,

400 pounds
Chinese
Muslim
homeless
elderly
a parent of a differently abled child

etc. etc.

In other words, I think it's important to have empathy for every single member of our site by not assuming that everyone is like us and showing sensitivity towards readers we don't know anything about every time we post. This goes for posting a joke, a rant, or making a statement to all (i.e. considering whether it really fits "all").

08-27-2012, 05:33 PM	#16
nycfem Moderator How Do You Identify?: femme sub Preferred Pronoun?: Baby Grrl Relationship Status: Attached Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NYC Posts: 6,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 52,859 Thanked 21,737 Times in 5,088 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	On a micro level, how do we build a culture of empathy here on BFP? One thought I have is that it is important when we post that we think that any member could be reading the post and how will they feel after reading it if they are, for example, 400 pounds Chinese Muslim homeless elderly a parent of a differently abled child etc. etc. In other words, I think it's important to have empathy for every single member of our site by not assuming that everyone is like us and showing sensitivity towards readers we don't know anything about every time we post. This goes for posting a joke, a rant, or making a statement to all (i.e. considering whether it really fits "all").