[Parker]

Originally Posted by BullDog

I don't like being called ma'am or lady either. My partner calls me Sir. I would prefer she would be the only one that does.

Interesting - we are all so complex!

I never really minded ma'am - probably because even though I was enlisted, a lot of military folks use that as a sign of respect, so I got used to it - but I never really cared for lady (as in, ladies and gentlemen - I identify with the latter more than the former); and yeah, if my partner calls me Sir, that's different.

Also, I identify more as a daddy than a mom/mommy to my fur babies, which confuses people who know I am a woman and want to be seen as a woman - but I dont get offended if people call me mom when addressing me about my babies or when talking to my babies about me - it means they see me as a woman ..... I guess it's why being female and masculine at the same time can sometimes fuck with my (and other's) head.