[lusciouskiwi]

Now that I know what IRL means ... I have several colleagues who are lesbian or gay. One butch friend I know from when we were both teaching in South Korea (she let me paint her toe nails blue after we had sex once). She's over here with her gf in the same project but different employer. Another mate (the one I spent the weekend with) same company as mate above, I also know him from South Korea and he's also from NZ. We had a great time talking about gay and lesbian sex, positions and lube, etc. I have a couple of other lesbian couple colleagues in my company - one couple I don't interact with (I'm not cool enough), the other I do and saw them twice during the school holidays while they were on the island.

I also have a couple of Malaysian lesbian mates who are also school teachers - one's a high school English teacher (and very bossy! LOL), the other was in the primary school division but now she's doing something else (not sure what).

I don't see my queer mates nearly enough and must change that.