Here's a link to a draft of my latest video project-- it's about butches doing eldercare for family members. I know 5 gender non-conforming women who are taking care of (some living with) their aging and/or ill mothers, even though we were ostracized from our families for our young adult years.
It's a super interesting situation to me, and it's sure to be rich with all the humor and sadness and joy that is humanity.