[Kent]

Offer yourself no reasons, no excuses and no justifiers for your life. You are in charge of your own destiny. No one or no thing is to blame for you not getting what you can have. When you offer up excuse, you offer yourself defeat. You will never be beaten until you say you are beaten. You must become unreasonable. No reasons, no excuses and no justifiers. You are what and where you are by your own choices. Accept this and trust the process.
Dalai Lama