Thread: The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.
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Old 10-01-2012, 05:18 PM   #3184
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Originally Posted by ruthie14 View Post
Ya Mel, 2 out of 3 butches said to email her (sorry little feather) so I did. Seems like the right move. Found another lovely email from her this morning. We shall see how it all turns out.

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Ruthie
I think the best advice I can offer a femme is to be YOU. No facade, no "lemme try to be who they want", no games (unless they are games you are both into). JUST BE YOU. After the wooing, YOU is what remains, so why not start off with that? Plus, having met in person, I think YOU is wonderful
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