10-08-2012, 10:27 AM
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Originally Posted by PinkieLee
Some things I have learned and continue to learn every single day....
#1 rule... you've gotta love yourself before you can love anyone else! YOU have to be happy with you ~ no one can do that for you!
Communication... say what you mean and mean what you say. No passive aggressive or mindreading bullshit, tell me what you want/need.
Speak up when something is bothering you! Even if you think it's small or petty, those little things can add up quick in your head and you start feeling resentful.
Having hobbies outside of the relationship. Just because I don't like to golf, doesn't mean she should give it up. And I won't drag her to any jewelry making classes  We are all individuals with likes and dislikes... we should embrace that!
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I have to say that these are all things I have to agree with. Great advice!
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