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Originally Posted by Martina
I also DATE femmes. Femmes are not some category of person whom I bond with in a non-sexual way and swear a scouts' oath of loyalty to.
I don't know. Weird eery heteronormative music started playing in the background when I was reading this thread.
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Oh, *I* date all over the queer gender spectrum.
I'm far from hetero so I'm going to disagree with your perception.
It's a buzzkill (for the relationship) if a trusted member of my chosen inner circle dates or makes a move on someone I was in love with or owned.
It's boundary crossing for "me" I don't expect for anyone else but the people I'm allowing in my life to respect these boundaries. It's going to be a well known fact I have these expectations because like with any other relationship my chosen circle will know because in developing the friendship it will be talked about. Friendships are relationships.
I feel it's an individual choice on how one values relationships over nookie.