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			In the 7 years since I started my journey I have had to learn that sometimes we have to be true to ourselves and the hell with what other ppl see or THINK they see or hear. 
 
I started with 1 company and was with they till almost 2 yrs ago.  They helped bybe accepting(which I didnt expect since its a southern company) and as I was progressing in my journey they moved me to b accepted more by other workers.  
 
I have worked with 2 other companies since I left the 1st company and NO one has questioned if Im a csi man or not. 
 
I do have to divulge the fact that I once I was known by another name cuz it is on professional background checks however I have found companies that wouldnt talk to me any longer after they found out I was transgender.  It is their lost.   
 
My parents refused to talk to me for 7 yrs and while I was in the hospital this past September my mom called and I told her all I wanted and she agreed and since that time hasnt called me by my birth name. 
 
My biggest grip is whenever I call someone about something they call me maam.  I correct them once and the next time its on.  It only takes me telling them the second time and they stop calling me maam  
 
I did have that issue in the hospital where they kept calling me she even after being told repeatedly that it was SIR
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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