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Originally Posted by Blushingfemme
Going to try to make sense and not ramble here. I am the Aunt of two incredible, wonderful children. My Sister could not have children from her body, so she adopted; they are the children of our hearts.
The birth parents were married, and between them they had 5 other children. When they found out my neice was on her way, they went the open adoption route because California would no longer pay extra for any additional children born to them on welfare, and they wanted to be in her life. Then they became pregnant with my nephew, and decided that they would go ahead and keep a boy! OMG, can you imagine what that would have done to my neice? Anyway, they wound up letting my nephew be adopted, and the last we heard 10 years or so ago, the family lost all 5 children due to neglect and abuse. My sister tried everything she could think of to find those children and bring them home with her, but no one would help.
So, now my niece and nephew live with the fact that they are blood brother and sister, they were given away, and their siblings are God knows where.
Thank you for this thread, and the insight I am given into what people think and ways in which I can possibly help the people I love.
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Your post made my hair crawl. People need to use birth control!
I am so glad your niece and nephew ended up in a good place and that your sister was able to help keep them together and that they have you.
If they do ever get the opportunity to meet their blood relatives, I think it would be a god idea to make sure they clearly know that these people were likely brought up very differently than they were and may not be what they expect. (in fact it is likely considering the circumstances that they may not be pleased with what they find) There is not always a happy Oprah moment.
I wish you and your sister and the kids all happiness and peace!
