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Originally Posted by Dude
maybe friend means different things to different people?
what I am talking about is someone being
interested in you as a person not just a sex partner
someone who will care about your well being
who is supportive of outside friendships
who has and nurtures their own
someone who cares about your dreams and does not
expect you to give them up for their dreams
someone who knows how to be there in hard times
outside of the bed
who lives their life with integrity
someone who is willing to compromise ,sometimes
someone you can have faith in at all times
and in all circumstances
someone who knows how to play and has a sense of humor
that takes time to learn outside and separate from
the beginning lust stuff
the whole fucking enchilada
that's what I'm talking about
not just a hook up
but "relationship material"
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Agree. Don't get me wrong; lust is great
. A sexual chemistry is what differentiates a potential partner from just a friend. It's important to me that a partner enjoys that erotic connection (with me!)
But I also want someone who will be my buddy. Someone I can lean on and who can come to me as well. Without that friendship, sex becomes just an act.